Preparing your child for a bad present!
Does your child get upset when they open a present they don’t want? This usually happens because they have an idea in their head that doesn’t eventuate. Maybe they already have that gift or it’s not what they were thinking it would be. Maybe they just wanted something different! This can be HARD for kids but let’s be honest, adults find it hard too!
So how do we help our kids learn to be grateful when they are given a present they don’t like or want?
We can do this by actually practising opening up “bad” presents. Wrap up any item from around the home - soap, coffee, a peeler ... ANYTHING that you know won’t interest your child. Give it to your child to help them practise opening presents and reacting with gratitude; through facial expressions (smile) and/or words spoken (“Thank you”).
It’s ok to feel disappointed and think, “That’s not what I was hoping” and it can be tricky when our words don’t match the feelings and thoughts we have.
We give gifts to show someone we care. Teaching our kids that no matter what the gift is, showing gratitude is part of receiving the gift. Learning gratitude takes practise so start practising now before the big day!
About the writer:
Lauren is a speech pathologist who has over 15 years experience working with children and teenagers who present with a range of learning and communication difficulties. Lauren is passionate about helping others and loves to find simple and creative ways to make learning fun!
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